这个故事告诉我们做人不可以有自卑感。

一

那年我18岁，在北京一所很著名的大学读大一。
农村生长的我，刚入首都，看到别的同学，骄傲的男生、漂亮的女生，心里有一种自卑感，所以很少与人交往。
这时她出现在我的生活里。她算不上绝色，但绝对是美女，柔顺飘逸的长发，苗条高挑的身材，走到哪里都是人们关注的焦点。最吸引人注意的还是她丰满的胸部，坚挺、结实。她性格很大方、开朗，又很会体贴人，温婉可人而不失坚强，而且成绩优秀，是系学生会的学习部长，追她的男生多如夏夜的青蛙，不计其数。
像这么优秀的女孩一般我是不会去招惹的，我没钱，又不帅，惹不起。
晚上我们一般都在阶梯教室自习，座位不固定。她总是主动坐在我旁边，没事找事的与我说话。开始我不理她，可她丝毫不以为意，仍然向我问这问那。没办法我只好答话，慢慢的就熟识了，话也多了起来。
有一次她问我："你不与人交往，是不是有些自卑？"
我说是。
她说："那我训练你，让你自信起来好不好？"
我说好啊。
她说："第一步，注视我的眼睛。"
我说不要吧？
她说："说话时不敢看对方的眼睛，别人一眼就知道你心虚。"
于是我大胆地看着她的眼睛。
她的眼睛真好看，很大，很清澈，水汪汪的，尽管戴着高度近视眼镜，但丝毫无损于她的美丽。
刚看了不到5秒钟，我就心虚了，把目光向下移。
可是又看到了她更美丽的胸部。
我的脸一下子红了。
她没注意到我看了她的胸部，说："看你看你，胆子这么小。"
于是我又鼓起勇气与她对视。
在她的帮助下，我很快开朗起来，同学们也不再把我当"异类"。我真正融入到了同学之中，学习成绩成直线上升，还在校园征文中获得了一等奖。
当然对这一切最感到高兴的还是她，因为她的努力有了效果。
可是我知道我爱上了她，一天不和她说话我就像浑身没劲。
她是北京人，每到周末都要回家。于是周末成了我最讨厌的日子。
我知道她感受到了我对她的感情。因为从表面上看，她对每个男生都很好，好像跟大家相处得都不错，我只是其中之一而已。但她跟我在一起笑得最多，话也最多，而且每次星期天下午从来家里回来时，都要给我带一些吃的，这让我感到很幸福，也让别的男生很吃醋。

二

转眼就要放寒假了。
寒假有一个月不能见到她，我不知道这个假期我该怎么过，只有盼望日子慢一点。
可是时间还是一天一天飞快的过去，寒假终于到了。
虽然父母很想我，但还是写信叫我不要回去，我也不打算回去。因为买车票的钱相当于我两个月的生活费。
临近过年，许多民工都回乡了，在离学校大概一个小时车程的建筑工地上，我找到了一份挑砖和看守材料的工作，晚上就住在工棚里。工钱是按天算的，每天20元，还管3餐饭，我很知足，因为一个寒假能挣600，下学期的生活费就不要家里寄了。
北京的冬天真冷啊。
家乡的冬天也冷，但必竟是南方，把棉被加厚一点就可以了。
可在北京不行。夜里，工棚里简直是个冰窟隆。我又不敢生火，因为工棚里就我一个人，怕睡着了出安全事故。难以入睡，只能勉强打个盹凑合一下。
腊月二十八。早上。
我像往常一样，挑起一担砖，刚直起腰就看见了她。
她和她爸妈提着很多菜，应该是采购年货吧。
她也看见了我，很意外。
对视了两秒。
我低下头继续工作。
她叫住我："你......"
我苦笑："我要挣生活费。"
她不由分说地拉起我："去我家洗个热水澡，换套我爸的衣服，看你一身的灰。"
她的坚决让我无法拒绝，我去了。
原来她家就在附近。进院子的时候我注意了一下，是一个很有实权的部门。对面走来一人，很恭敬地对她爸说"赵局长好"，看到我跟他们走在一起，很诧异地看着。她妈在后面说："我家下水道堵了，找个人看一下。"
我只觉得脑袋"轰"了一声。掉头就往回走。身后传来她和她妈吵架的声音。
我穷，但我有自尊。
晚上，我坐在棉被里，想起白天的事，心情很差。于是拿起心爱的二胡，拉起了辛酸的《二泉映月》。(忘了交待，我跟父亲学会了二胡，尤其喜欢《二泉映月》)
曲终，有人鼓掌："今天才知道你还有这手绝活。"
她提着一个大包站在棚口："不请我进来么？"
我冷冷地看着她。
她自顾自地走了进来，脱鞋，也在棉被里坐下。"我带了几件我爸的旧衣服，希望你不要嫌弃。白天的事我向你道歉。还有400块钱，是我给你的压岁钱。"
我说："我不要你的怜悯和施舍。我在我的世界里，以我自己的方式活得很好，不要你来管。"
她说："我真的想帮你，没有丝毫看不起你的意思，你要相信我。以前你内向，我帮你开朗起来。现在你生活这么苦，我想帮你渡过难关。"
我看着她。
她也看着我。
我们就这样对视着，足有5分钟。
虽然工棚里只有25瓦的灯泡，但她脸上的真诚却真实地映入我的眼底。
一个念头在我心底升起。
我突然一把扳过她身子，把她压在身下，一只手粗鲁地抓着她的胸部。
她愣了一下，可能一下没反应过来，但随即掀开我，然后一个响亮的耳光落在我脸上。
"无耻!我真是瞎了眼了!"她整理了一下，头也不回地走了。
我知道我与她彻底结束了，心里一阵轻松，尽管很不舍。

三

又开学了，大家陆续返回了校园。
她依然与每个男生保持着交往，除了我。晚上自修，也远远的坐着。
同学们也发现了这一点，都问我原因，我不答。
日子就在这冷冷的气氛中过去了三年，每一天我都承受着煎熬的三年。看着她若无其事的与其他同学嘻笑，我的心就一阵阵刺痛。于是我更加发奋的读书，但最高奖学金丝毫不能减轻我的痛苦。
我知道我深爱着她，但我不配。我想只有毕业才能解脱这种痛苦。
而我在她眼里就像是透明人一样，她的目光从来不在我身上停留。
直到有一天......
那时已经是夏天了，离毕业大概还有个把月。我们寝室一直有"卧谈"的传统，那天一个平时与我关系很好的朋友说起了她"那对奶子，啧啧，真想咬一口。"那表情，就好像真的咬了一样。我扑上去，狠狠给了他一拳。
第二天，我们两人都青肿着脸去上课。全班同学都知道了打架的原因。晚上，在阶梯教室，她又坐到了我旁边，盯着我不说话。尽管已有三年不曾对视，但我仍读懂了她的目光，她是在询问。我说："因为我不想别人侮辱你。"
她说："既然如此，那当初你自己为什么要侮辱我？"
我只觉得热血上涌，心中埋藏了三年的话终于脱口而出："因为我不想你在我身上浪费青春。我配不上你，我们是两个世界的人。虽然我喜欢你，但我毕业后要回去的，不可能留京。而你不同，你应该有更美好的未来。"
"然后你就用这种方法来让我讨厌你？"她看着我。
我也看着她："是。"
又一次对视。
良久，她仰起脸，但眼泪仍掉了下来。
我收拾好书，走出了阶梯教室。一直到毕业，我都没有再去自修。
......

腊月二十八。早上。
我像往常一样，为女儿准备早餐。
手机响了，是我留京的同学打来的："她今天结婚。"
我说："谁结婚？"
他说："还有谁？已经32了，全班最后一个结婚，还非要把婚期定在腊月二十八，都快过年了，不知道她怎么想的。"
"咣"的一声，我手中的锅铲掉在地上。
客厅传来妻的声音："怎么了？"
我说没什么，拾起锅铲，把已经煎糊了的鸡蛋丢进垃圾桶。

史上歌詞最長的一首歌了吧 居然有八百個字

很好听的一首歌

關於戀愛症候群的發生原因　至今仍然是最大一個謎
不管性別年齡職業體重學歷長相和血型　沒有一個人可以免疫
有些專家學者研究後相信　戀愛是內分泌失調所引起
卻有別人認為戀愛屬於濾過性病毒　像感冒無藥可救但會自動痊癒
不管你同不同意　自古到今許多例子證明
戀愛不但是一種病態　它還可能是一種變態

一般發病後的初期反應會開始改變一些生活習性
洗澡洗得特別乾淨　刷牙刷得特別用力　半夜突然爬起來彈鋼琴
有人每天站在陽臺對路人傻笑　有人突然瘋瘋癲癲　突然很安靜
有人一臉癡呆　對著鏡子咬著指甲打噴嚏　有人對著小狗罵三字經
女人突然改變髮型　男人開始每天練著啞鈴
食慾不振歇斯底里四肢萎縮神經過敏發抖抽筋都出現在這時期

隨著病情越來越變本加厲　人會變得格外敏感勇敢和噁心
寫的說的唱的都像天才詩人一般才華洋溢　愈肉麻愈覺得有趣
有人戀愛之後每天躲在廁所哭泣　有人開記者會宣佈戀愛的消息
有人總是喜歡兩個人躲在黑漆漆的地方　像做了不可告人的事情
每天忙著找人算命　挖空心思改變自己　配合對方的習性
把每天都當作紀念日　把自己當作紀念品
每天漫無目的的膩在一起　言不及意也覺得好有趣
走著坐著躺著趴著都形影不離　像是兩人三腳又像連體嬰
心裡想的只有愛你愛你愛你愛你　也不管家裡米缸有沒有米
也不管路上有人示威抗議　只管愛你
心裡想的只有愛你愛你愛你愛你　也不管海峽兩岸統一問題
也不管衣索匹亞多少難民　只管愛你

經過一段轟轟烈烈熱戀時期　不久就會開始漸漸痊癒
兩人開始互相厭倦　互相攻擊對方缺點　所有甜蜜都隨風而去
然後開始從錯覺和誤解中清醒　驚訝自己為何如此不聰明
為了愛情不管一切　不顧父母朋友姐妹兄弟　開始感到後悔不已
然後開始感到疲憊沉悶氣喘心悸牙痛頭痛夢囈
然後是精神不濟瞳孔放大脾氣暴燥四肢麻痺　終於受不了要分離

雖然結果頗令人傷心　瞭解之後也沒什麼了不起
愛情終究是握不住的雲　只是我想要告訴你
哦……在我落寞的歲月裡　妳的溫柔解脫我的孤寂
帶給我深深的狂喜　如此顫動著我的心靈
輕輕訴說愛你愛你愛你愛你　不管是黑夜或是黎明
不管是夢中或是清醒　深深愛你
我要對你說愛你愛你愛你愛你　不管是黑夜或是黎明
不管是夢中或是清醒　深深愛你
多麼幸福　讓我遇見你　嗚……

恭喜恭喜

恭喜恭喜

词曲：陈歌辛

每条大街小巷，每个人的嘴里
见面第一句话，就是恭喜恭喜
恭喜恭喜恭喜你呀，恭喜恭喜恭喜你

冬天已到尽头，真是好的消息
温暖的春风，就要吹醒大地
恭喜恭喜恭喜你呀，恭喜恭喜恭喜你

皓皓冰雪融解，眼看梅花吐蕊
漫漫长夜过去，听到一声鸡啼
恭喜恭喜恭喜你呀，恭喜恭喜恭喜你

经过多少困难，历尽多少磨练
多少心儿盼望，盼望春的消息
恭喜恭喜恭喜你呀，恭喜恭喜恭喜你

每条大街小巷，每个人的嘴里
见面第一句话，就是恭喜恭喜
恭喜恭喜恭喜你呀，恭喜恭喜恭喜你

 

 

Persistent and Determination

“Nothing in this world can take the

place of persistence.

Talent will not; nothing is more common

than unsuccessful people with talent.

Genius will not; unrewarded genius is

almost a proverb.

Education will not; the world is full of

educated derelicts.

Persistence and determination alone

are omnipotent.

The slogan “press on” has solved and

always will solve the problems of the

human race.”

 

A quote from Calvin Coolidge

 

 

First Post

Didn't realise that I am one of the contributors of this blog. Lol.. Well ok, to do my part of contribution, let me see...

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4. Latest Science/Tech news
5. Updates on my life... lol...

Voting is easy. Just click on the 'comments' link at the bottom of this post and make a shoutout~!!

Take care everyone and have a great week ahead.

Negaraku

Almost all Malaysian are very familiar with our National Anthem – Negaraku. However, not many people know that its music is actually from an oldie in the 40s called Mamula Moon from “Felix Mendelssohn & His Hawaii”. You can listen to the music below and compare them yourself and see whether what I say is true.

Mamula Moon

Negaraku

Online Gaming Craziness

Nowadays, online gaming is a big business, not only to the games companies but also to people who spent massive amount of time on them. In the crazily popular Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Game (MMORPG) World of Warcraft (WoW), the ‘gold’ in the game can be sold for really cash. At the point of writing, 1000 in-game gold can be sold for £50! Some people even earn a living by playing games. They spent hours and hours ‘farming’ in games and sell the farmed goods for real cash. The internet games section of Ebay saw more than $9m (£5m) in trades in 2003.

The business inside the game is more and more similar to real business. People actually apply real economics techniques to make money in game. Some look to maximise their returns by controlling the price of a particular item. Every time this item turns up on the auction house, the player buys it, then puts it up for auction again at a higher price to the keep the profits rolling in. Some people put a rare item in the auction house for a very high price for a period long enough for gamers to think that that’s the real price and then suddenly, the items are sold in a much cheaper price in abundance. People will respond by thinking “Wow…that’s cheap!” and grabbed them like there is no tomorrow.

A South Korean man has died after reportedly playing an online computer game for 50 hours with few breaks. There are addiction to gamble, addiction to alcohol, addiction to drugs,…etc and now there is addiction to gaming. This is no ordinary addiction and is as serious as drug addiction. People who have played Dota or Wow will definitely know the consequences. It is extremely hard to stop when you are into it and it is a total waste of time and life.

A Shanghai online gamer has been given a suspended death sentence for killing a fellow gamer recently. Qiu Chengwei stabbed Zhu Caoyuan in the chest when he found out he had sold his virtual sword for 7,200 Yuan (£473). There are more and more cases of crime resulted from dispute over virtual properties. People now treat virtual properties as real money and phenomena is getting more and more serious. The “Dragon Sabre” won by Qiu, was lent to his mate and been sold for real money. Mr Qiu stabbed his mate out of anger.

The influence of Gaming on people can not be treated lightly now. Although gaming is of great fun, we must know when to stop and not to go extreme.

Katie Melua - Nine Million Bicycles

Email Blogging

Do you know you can blog using your own email program such outlook.

It is very convenient compared to blogging using its built-in system.

All you have to do is login to your blogger and goto the settings tab, then on the email tab, set your email address you like. Then all you have to do is just send an email to the address.

The amusing effect of disregarding the reference of pronouns is illustrated in the story below:

“So down I goes to the stable with Tom Flynn, and told the man to put the saddle on him.”
“On Tom Flynn?”
“No, on the horse. So after talking with Tom Flynn awhile I mounted him.”
“What! mounted Tom Flynn?”
“No, the horse; and then I shook hands with him and rode off.”
“Shook hands with the horse, Billy?”
“No, with Tom Flynn; and then I rode off up the Bowery, and who should I meet but Tom Hamblin; so I got off and told the boy to hold him by the head.”
“What! hold Hamblin by the head?”
“No, the horse; and then we went and had a drink together.”
“What! you and the horse?”
“No, me and Hamblin; and after that I mounted him again and went out of town.”
“What! mounted Hamblin again?”
“No, the horse; and when I got to Burnham, who should be there but Tom Flynn,—he'd taken another horse and rode out ahead of me; so I told the hostler to tie him up.”
“Tie Tom Flynn up?”
“No, the horse; and we had a drink there.”
“What! you and the horse?”
“No, me and Tom Flynn.”
Finding his auditors by this time in a horse laugh, Billy wound up with:
“Now, look here,—every time I say horse, you say Hamblin, and every time I say Hamblin you say horse: I'll be hanged if I tell you any more about it.”

SaveToby.com

If you have read my previous post about a cute little rabbit that will be slaughtered unless people pay its owner some bucks, you will know that that rabbit will be killed on 30th June 2005.
The question is - has cute little Toby been killed?
The answer is read www.savetoby.com again.
If you are a bit observant, you will notice that the date has changed.
Instead of 30th of June, it is now 6th November 2006.
Using the sympathy of human kind, he really has earned some bucks from donation from kind people who want to save the poor rabbit. As long as there are good and naive people in the world with some money, he is going to live a forever happy live earning free money.

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Galvanic Series

Today, studying the chemistry Galvanic Series made me recalled a very funny way of memorising the series.

Kalau – Ka
Nak – Na
Kahwin – Ca
Mesti – Mg
Ada – Al
Zakar – Zn
Fexible – Fe
Supaya – Sn
Perempuan – Pb
Hasil – H
Cukup – Cu
Anak – Ag

This technic is very effective. Have a try.

 

 

 

 

Stop comparing

This is an article from www.sparkyblue.com

We live in a pathologically dissatisfied world. And I'm going to tell you why.
Because we love to compare.

Go around the world and discover that people aren't happy with their bodies.

Filipinos want to be fair-complexioned like Westerners, and so buy bleaching stuff.
Westerners want to own bronzed bodies like ours, and so purchase tanning lotions.

Those with moles have them removed, while those who don't strategically implant beauty spots.

Some people want to shed a few pounds to look like Ally McBeal,
while others want to gain some baby fat to look like Drew Barrymore.

When are we ever going to stop and simply be happy with how we look?
We live in a sick world, I tell you. And that sickness is comparisonitis.

Take a look at wealth. When we drive our old Toyota, it really suitsus fine.
We feel blessed in fact when the rain pours outside and we feel snug and cozy on its faded upholstered seats.
But the moment we see our own officemate (or neighbor, or buddy, or cousin, or brother) drive his sleek sky-blue, four-door, four-wheel-drive Honda Rav4, we automatically feel like third-class children of God.

Next time we drive our bumpy,noisy, rusted, dilapidated Toyota
(notice how all the defects come out all of a sudden? ), we feel deprived, dispossessed, pariah, debased, and only a little higher than the insects of the earth.

Listen carefully. Bill Gates total assets are worth $60 billion.
That's more than the GNP of some small countries.
Tiger Woods earns $80 million simply by smiling on TV in a Nike shirt.
And the stars of the sitcom Friends are paid $50,000 per episode!

My point? No matter how hard you work, there'll still be some people who will be richer than you are. And there'll be some people who will be more beautiful, have more sex appeal, have more boyfriends, and have more problems.

Try it for once. Stop looking around. Dont compare! Dont compare her nose with your nose.

Don't compare his wife with your wife.
Don't compare his salary with your salary.
Don't compare her breast size with your breast size.
Don't compare her kids report card with your kids report card.
Don't compare his prayer group with your prayer group.
Don't compare her cellulite deposits with your cellulite deposits.
For crying out loud, stop comparing and start living!
And you'll be happier with your life, I guarantee.

This is crucial: The most difficult thing in the world is to be who you are not.
Pretending and trying to be someone else is the official pastime of the human race.
(I don't think dogs and cats and cows and horses have this problem.)

And the easiest thing in the world is to be yourself. Be happy. Live!
There must be a reason why God made you tall or short or fat or thin or bumpy all over.

Love who you are!

www.sparkyblue.com

Italian English

http://www.sparkyblue.com/misc/italian_english/index.htm

Read this. Very funny.

 

The weakest and strongest point of a human being - Sympathy

I noticed this website today and thought that it is good to share with other people.
This guy uses human’s weakest point, sympathy, to earn money; and he has succeeded in earning $25,000.
Of course, this trick only works in some western countries. If he were to use this trick in any Asia country, nobody will give a damn.

This is what he has written:

Toby is the cutest little bunny on the planet. Unfortunately, he will DIE on June 30th, 2005 if you don.t help. I rescued him several months ago. I found him under my porch, soaking wet, injured from what appeared to be an attack from an alley cat. I took him in, thinking he had no chance to live from his injuries, but miraculously, he recovered. I have since spent several months nursing him to health. Toby is a fighter, that.s for sure.

Unfortunately, on June 30th, 2005, Toby will die. I am going to eat him. I am going to take Toby to a butcher to have him slaughter this cute bunny. I will then prepare Toby for a midsummer feast. I have several recipes under consideration, which can be seen, with some pretty graphic images, under the recipe section.

I don’t want to eat Toby, he is my friend, and he has always been the most loving, adorable pet. However, God as my witness, I will devour this little guy unless I receive 50,000$ USD into my account from donations or purchase of merchandise. You can help this poor, helpless bunny’s cause by making donations through my verified PayPal account by clicking on any of the Donate buttons on this site, or by purchasing merchandise at the Savetoby.com online store.

Visit http://www.savetoby.com/ to know more but please don’t fall into his trick.

London - 11th April 2005 Monday - WEEK 28 - Senior Farewell party and Ultimate Frisbee

British weather was unexpected as usual. It could get to 18 degree-Celsius on one day and dropped to 0 on another. The weather today was extraordinary good.

It was a warm and sunny day which everyone has been long awaiting.

Today was a very special day. We had a farewell party for the 4th year seniors in the Kensington Garden, a garden together with Hyde Park are called 'The Lung' of London. Squirrels, ducks, varieties of birds and even seagulls roam across the park. The garden was exceptionally beautiful today because of the good weather. It is spring now and flowers are blooming all over.

The farewell party was nothing more than a picnic gathering. Everyone had to pay 3 pounds for the food. The food was made by the new Malaysian Society Committee members.

Sausages, chicken wings, fried rice and mee were very tasty especially when you were hungry.

After filling up my stomach, I learnt to play a new game called Frisbee. A Frisbee is a round disc that can fly very far if you throw it well. At first, I thought throwing a disc was pretty easy but not after I tried it myself. It was very easy to 'throw it' and it would spin ungracefully for a short distance before it landed like China Airlines. After some practises, I managed to fly the Frisbee for quite a long distance stably.

It sounded easy, but when you actually did that yourself, you would know its difficulty.

After that, we played a game called Ultimate Frisbee. It is a combination of soccer, net-ball, rugby and basketball, with the ball swapped with the Frisbee of course. It is a game that required stamina, agility and some intelligence. If you are interested to know more about this game, have a look at this website - http://www.whatisultimate.com/what/what_game_en.html.

Time really flies when playing games. Due to the longer daylight during spring, I could play longer before the sunset. Without realizing how fast the time passed, we played until 7.30pm. After that, due to the fact that I have not been exercising for almost a month, my whole body was aching. I staggered to my bicycle in the college and cycled home.

In the night, I could hardly move. With great determination, I managed to totter to the kitchen and cooked for myself a delicious dinner.

With great satisfaction, I went to my sweet little single size bed and slept until 12 the next afternoon, completely disobeyed my well-planned timetable for the holiday.

 

Blogging software

I am using BlogJet to post and publish to this blog.
But its ftp feature is quite funny; it doesn’t allow me to put my files to other directory except the root.
I have no idea at all what is happening.

DaveCKW

Google Lunar Base

Google is a well known search engine in the cyberspace. Starting as a small research project in the University of Stanford, until becoming the world largest search company and offering a email service Gmail with more than 2GB of space, the word "G" has reached the mind of many.
However, the "G" ambition is no where reaching its limit. Google is planning to build a lunar base on our natural satelite. From capturing every TV programme in our planet, to recording the messages that were delivered by other intelligent beings from other planetery systems, Google intends to expand its information database to a whole new era.

Besides its searches business, Google trys to answer the following questions...

• Exactly how far does the Worldwide web extend? Can it become an interplanetary utility? If so, will it replace Water Works on Monopoly®?
• What are the likely effects of link attenuation over extreme distances? Is there a limit to link strength, or is it infinitely extensible like bubble gum that gets stuck to the bottom of your shoe?
• What happens to PageRank in the proximity of a black hole? Is there distortion that might result in link relevancy reduction or popularity warping? Could this somehow be harnessed to generate more dates for engineers?
• Does spam go on forever?

If you are interested in working on the moon, contact lunarjobs@google.com.

Applicants must be at least 18 years of age by April 1, 2007 and have proof of earth residency. Google is an equal opportunity employer.

For more information on the Lunar Base visit http://www.google.com/jobs/lunar_job.html

Jason Mok - Love's perspective

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were
sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her
hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see
this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love." This
was how I saw it:

As long as you keep your hand caring open and allow it to remain
there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your
fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first
cracks it find. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they
meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and
just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve
from you. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature.
If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to
truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it,
you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and
yet an unconditional caring." Passing thought...

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the
moments that take our breath away.....

My friend, Care for your love, as he/she is your life partner and
especially a human being, Don't treat them like an asset as what to do
& what not to do. Instead make them understand what's good and what's
bad for them and make them realize the facts.

Enjoy your love and make them feel special about you.

JasonMok